pressured?? please help!

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okay so im a 15 year old girl and one of my best friends, hes 17, asked me to suck his dick last year in november. i said no (i was 14) and we only made out. this past thursday, we started “talking/becoming fwb” and we’ve made out twice. he wants me to give him a blowjob but ive told him many times that i dont want to yet, that im not ready. he says that hes impatient and doesnt want to wait for me; the most he’ll wait is a week. im afraid that ive gotten attached to him already and have caught feelings but i dont want to be pressured into doing something. he’s done a lot more than i have in terms of sexual things so that makes me feel insecure like i’ll do something wrong and he’ll hate me which is the main reason why i don’t want to. any advice??? please help!

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You’re right to turn him down. You can catch stds from oral, not to mention he’s clearly trying to use you. Shit if he doesn’t want to wait on you then tell him to keep it moving!

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Never let a guy pressure you into anything...especially sexual things. If he wants a bj sooo bad, let him go get it somewhere else. Stick to your guns!

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Do not let him pressure you! He is not a friend and you need to distance yourself from him asap! You deserve better and there is PLENTY of time to do things at your own pace.

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He's absolutely using you. You're worth more than that. Kick his sorry ass to the curb.

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If you're not ready, then don't do it. The fact that he's pressuring you into doing something you're not ready for is a red flag. You're still young and have your whole life ahead of you, so be intimate with people you trust and if you're ready and comfortable.

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It’s sounds like he’s trying to use you, I was you; I wanted to do it to make him happy, but was scared i’d do it wrong. 
well, I did it. 
& he still stopped talking to me after...

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Tell him to go fuck himself

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My opinion is going to be so different but whatever:
Do you understand the term FWB? It means you are friends who do sexual stuff together. By you not wanting to do things with him, you are not holding up your end of the deal. He is not wrong for expecting more from you.
So, if you understandably don't want to do anything (which I don't believe you should be at your age) then don't be his FWB. Be his FRIEND. If you guys can't do that then find a new friend.

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tell him to suck his own dick

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I reckon whether you're into him or not, if he's demanding things of you and not giving you time to get comfortable is a definite Bad Sign. Stick to what you believe in, he isn't the be all and end all you're still young, better men will come when you're ready

pressured?? please help!

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