I saw other ladies posting their responses from their spouse about this. This is something my boyfriend and I have never really discussed, and I was curious what he had to say. I would never be able to forgive myself if my child were to be sacrificed for me, but I get his point. That baby would never know what life is, no one would have known it. I am already alive, have lived. People would miss me. Yes the baby would definitely be missed and mourned and I wouldn't forgive myself. But there's always a chance for another baby, not another me.