Husband likes sexual pages on IG

Rosmary

Need advise please đŸ˜„ I was scrolling through my husband iG yesterday (usually never do that I was just bored ) and found out he follows like 5 pages that post sexual content and naked girls. Honestly it did make me feel insecure so I confronted him to what he replied...”yeah those are my favorite” and told him I wanted to talk about it but he got really defensive and started screaming telling me I was just looking for something to argue about. Which we never NEVER do we just don’t argue about stuff we are usually best friends. But he made me feel like I’m the problem and I gotta accept I’ve been a mess lately but it hasn’t even been a week since I had a miscarriage đŸ˜„ he says he just like “visual” stuff and that it doesn’t have anything to do with me and that he would unfollow. But he is mad at me for now and doesn’t want to talk to me. He is a awesome husband he provides for us and never complains about anything this is our first fight in 10 yrs. I don’t know what to do. Should I apologize? I’m I wrong? Please help 🙁

Update : I did try to apologize but he just won’t talk to me. He did delete the pages even the fitness ones that he was following. But I don’t know how I feel now. It’s hurts me that I’m not enough for him that he has to be looking somewhere else what he already has at home 😕