Cramping every day 😕

Stopped taking the pill to start TTC mid August and no sign of AF since then. BFN yesterday (Took a year just to be sure even tho I figured I wasn’t). Been cramping/bloated no matter what I eat or do just about everyday for the past 2-3 weeks. I eat fairly healthy and work out every day, living healthy lifestyle, but am Absolutely miserable!

Anyone else have this? How long did it take for AF to show up to your doorstep after stopping the pill?!? I just either want her to pay a visit or magically become pregnant because this sh*t right now is for the birds!!!