Hormone imbalance

Lindsey • 2 angel babies with Jesus! 👼🏻

Okay so I had a miscarriage when I was 17 years old in 2013. So my mom made me get on birth control right after so that I wouldn’t get pregnant again obviously. So I tried the pill first and I was bleeding continuously so I had to wear a pad ALL the time so I went to the doc to try a different one (the Nuva ring) and the same thing happened. I bled for 2 months straight so I stopped taking it all together. I weighed about 150 & everything was fine after I stopped taking it. Well I got married when I turned 19 and by that time I have noticed weight gain (not a lot) but I am now 23 and I am now 210 pounds. And I have excessive hair Growth. I have it on my neck (not like a beard but I do wax it because it’s embarrassing) and I have “side burns”. And I never had that before I took the birth control or didn’t start gaining weight until after the birth control. My mom seems to think my hormones are out of balance. I don’t have insurance to go to the doctor for it so does anyone recommend home remedies or any medication over the counter I can take for it? Please help. Me and my husband have been married since 2014 and we still haven’t conceived. So I’m thinking this could be a big part of it. Sorry this is so long!