So my boyfriend and I are TTC and he’s recently been outta town a lot for his job, he works in oilfield so his days tend to be long and I’m a preschool teacher lately things have been so hectic and I’ve been really upset that we can’t get pregnant.. we haven’t been trying a very long time but long enough to be frustrated.. so today while I was out on lunch he sent me such a sweet surprise to remind me that our time is coming and he grateful to have me I just thought it was so sweet but part of me is still so frustrated just wondering if you guys had any thoughts on how to stop thinking about it sooo often?