My husband is still friends with my ex best friend. She and I quit talking because we really didn’t have much in common and I think she’s fake (tries too hard to be something she isn’t). I also think she’s super rude and immature. It’s been two years since we’ve spoken and my life has been a whole lot less dramatic.

Anyway, this past weekend we went on vacation and while at an amusement park my husband left his phone in our stroller while he went on a water ride with his brothers. I didn’t know it was there until I went looking for his wallet to get some cash. I picked it up and noticed he had been Snapchatting with her. We’ll call her “Makayla”. They have a 236 day streak, meaning they talk frequently every single day. In the past I knew they had talked but after I told him it made me uncomfortable he told me he would stop talking to her. Obviously he hasn’t stopped and they’re “really good friends” according to Makayla.

I’m sad because he has been lying to me. I’m mad because he went behind my back and did something I told him I wasn’t okay with. I’m not okay with him talking to Makayla because of the way she has treated me in the past and because she likes to sleep around. Really I just don’t trust her. And it hurts me so bad to know he thinks I’m overreacting about this. On the drive home yesterday I told him I knew about his Snapchats with her. He didn’t say anything. When I asked him why he still talked to her he said “She’s entertaining”. It broke me. I feel like he’s got some sort of connection to her.

Tonight I told him how that comment made me feel. I’ve asked him to please stop talking to Makayla but he won’t. He thinks I’m trying to prevent him from having her as a friend because she and I don’t get along, which isn’t the case. I told him it wouldn’t bother me if she were a better person. He said I don’t even know her anymore. He’s completely siding with her. Am I overreacting? Am I wrong for this? Please help...