I suck at this

So my hubby has always been shy when talking about sex, so every now and then I try to start a sexting conversation, but it never works out. This is the most recent. Normally I just get a response like "oohh" or if im lucky, "you're so hot" how can I get a better response?

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Vi

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I didn’t get a sext vibe off of this text?

Su

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Well...tbh...there’s nothing sexy about that message. You’re scolding him not enticing him

c_

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Girl, I read that and wanted to say sorry too! 😂

Li

Liz • Nov 17, 2018
Same 😂😂😂😂

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blondebun • Oct 23, 2018
Same 🤣

Ta

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Perhaps try describing what you want him to do to you when he gets home or what you would do to him? It might set the scene a bit more, I don’t mean to offend but he may not be reading it as a ‘sext’ as such. Good luck 😉

Ta

Tanicqwa • Oct 4, 2018
@sheri you will find that perfect balance, don’t give up when you hit walls like this. You’ll find something that works for the both of you if you keep trying 🙂

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Sheri • Oct 4, 2018
Thanx! It's hard becuase he gets weird if I get too descriptive, so I feel like I have to find the perfect balance! 🙄

Ol

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Defs felt more like you were annoyed with him for being drunk the night before. Remember to keep it simple and to the point if you aren’t sure how to spice it up—“I can’t stop thinking about how hot you got me last night. I’ll be waiting for you to come finish the job when you get home 😏😘”

Sh

Sheri • Oct 5, 2018
Love it! Thank you!

Al

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Instead of taking your frustration with yourself out on him with “OMG that’s not what I wanted”, redirect the conversation. You could’ve said “don’t be sorry, just fuck me when I get home because now I can’t stop thinking about having you”

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Sheri • Oct 5, 2018
Thank you!

Ja

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Same. I'll say something sexy to my husband and he'll respond with "you're a baby". Everything single time. I absolutely hate it and wish he was a little more enthusiastic.

Ja

Jasmine • Oct 3, 2018
Every *

Sh

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Got me thinking I should reply sorry too😂 don’t scold him, tell him what you want him to do🤷🏼‍♀️
Got me thinking I should reply sorry too😂 don’t scold him, tell him what you want him to do🤷🏼‍♀️

Em

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First part of the message you’re just telling him off, or that’s what it sounds like

K

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Yeah I honestly feel like that wasn’t sexy at all. That was like annoyed. Maybe should have said “damn I’m so sad I that I missed out last night. Now I’m wanting it right now....When you coming home??”