My husband and I first started in December for our 1st. January i conceived with no problem, then had a MC in March. after that my AF was off (i'm very regular) i bought an OPK and preseed, i had been taking prenatals since 3 month before TT in december, drinking little coffee and avoiding alcohol. 4 months passed and nothing, every period was so disappointing, and i would cry. I finally got tired of taking prenatals for nothing, drinking small amounts of coffee and no alcohol for nothing, and stressing to get the preseed in just in time. (i didn't like it, and husband didn't like it). i only kept doing the OPK, i tried to keep calm and take it easy and enjoy things that i can do while I'm not pregnant. Finally october and i have a BFP!!! all i did differently was relax, drank milk smoothies with flax, strawberries, and spinach. i did see a chiropractor because my lower back hurt when i stress and i heard sometimes the hip is crooked and that could be a factor for TTC. We're excited but not going to go crazy until after we pass the risky weeks for MC.