What would you think? Does he look at me differently?

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He goes out with his friends (men and women), he is 27, 4 months ago he got out from the relationship. We have been talking since august. 3 weeks ago I text him - i really wanna see you 😞” he replied - we can talk about coffee date during the week. Then, during the week I asked him if he is also as happy as I am to see him. He goes - i told you when i have time. Then we talked talked and i feel terrible. He still has feelings for his ex. Thats why he is “busy” and dont talk to me. But he can talk to his girl friends? Does he see me as future possibility and Thats why he wanna be totally fresh to start with me?

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To put it bluntly, it looks like he’s just not interested in you at all. You don’t seem important to him and he’s just keeping you around for convenience. You’re better off leaving the whole situation and just moving on with your life.

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You started talking to him about 2 months after he got out of his last relationship which isn’t really very long at all. He doesn’t really sound like he is interested. Maybe he was at first and then realised he still has feelings for his ex. I’m not condoning nor disagreeing with his behaviour, but I do think that you should let this one lie. No one wants to be in the shadow of their relationship’s ex. My boyfriend had a real tough time with his ex (we were friends before we got together) so I waited until he was completely emotionally done with her until we pursued a relationship. He’s not looked back since and I have no worries about it. 
The point I’m trying to make is know your worth and don’t try to hang around someone in the hopes he’ll stop loving her for you. He needs to heal and you need to concentrate on you. You will find someone who is open and ready to pursue a relationship with you ☺️

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He isn’t interested. People who are interested make the time. He isn’t interested in his female friends either he’s just hanging out with them.

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Drop kick him to the curb. There are billions of men on this planet. He clearly doesn't love you or want you.

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Just leave him alone.

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Idk what he feels but tbh you deserve someone who gets excited just when you text them let alone sees you. You shouldn’t have to be “begging” to see this guy and hope he has time for you. If he really wanted to see you he would make the time.

What would you think? Does he look at me differently?

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