Tonight my boyfriend told me he wants to go to the military. He just told me how his pass gf never motivated him to do anything or help him in anyway. i definitely do but i don't want to come off annoying but anyway, i know im probably gonna cry bc he's going away. i know he's gonna want to go far because he want/likes to travel. (im so sad now i was watching stand by me and they played the song stand by me 😭) the military, army, navy and etc that's all great and i would be very proud to say my boyfriend is either one of them. i think im more scared of what could happen to him or even us. they also have great benefits which is good. i never want to be a military family with my kids move to 10 different schools. if he wants more support ill give it to him. it's gonna hurt me like crazy bc it like i just got him (i met him on a dating and we talked for a while b4 meeting) so distances wasnt a problem until after i met him now i want to see and talk to him 25/8. i knew when i was gonna be his gf this was the guy i was going to marry. I thought I was pregnant and i had to really think if he was gonna be a great father or husband material and it was no doubt in my mind that he would be great at both. im not going to hold him back from what he wants. he's 24 and says he hasnt reached his goals in life yet. he has a car, some jobs and a house so he’s good rn. he feels like he's still not making enough bc he wants to buy his mom a car and a house, he also wants a house with a lot of land. he had 2 jobs when i met him then he got 2 more he also said he was gonna be a truck driver i rather him do that tbh. i love him so much, i don't think he knows. im just trying to be a great gf to him, i wanna do so much for him when i can but it just never seems to work out. ive been showing him im patient, caring, helpful, bossy in a way lol he said we’re both the leader in the relationship. i really dont know what to do to show him how i feel like only if he was in my body/head. it's not about money or sex either tho the sex is great. i want to pay and since he has less money with the 2 jobs, then 4.i have no problem paying but we don’t have to also spend money to see each other. i just want to see him even if its just for 2 minutes. praying he chooses trucking then going away to probably actually fight in wars now. it would be great to see him accomplish his goals and still be with him when he does.