My SO works out of town every other week and I work weekends at my families breakfast restaurant. So the last 2 out of the 3 weekends my SO has done something fun, this weekend he is staying at his dads and goimg to a college football game Saturday. No biggy with him doing stuff, but I have the kids all week long. All I asked was if he got home Saturday at a decent time, could he keep the boys so I could go to dinner or to go get my nails done with my friend. His respose was...so I'm not gonna be able to see you this weekend? That made me feel like its cool for him to do stuff, but I can't, other wise if I do than I'm the one taking away from our time together...mind you I haven't done anything with my friend or anyone since the beginning of August...I just told him, never mind, its fine. You probably wouldn't be back at a decent time anyways. But like how come he can do stuff and stay gone Friday night, most of Saturday..but I can't do something for maybe 2 hours....just frustrated and dont know what to do.