Stressing about gender reveal 🙄


So I have an appointment scheduled at a boutique like place for 3D/4D ultrasounds to get an early gender scan. I’ll be 16 weeks 2 days. Well I told my immediate family (which is about 15 people parents/brothers/sisters/nieces/nephews) about the appointment and was under the impression they’d all just come there and we’d all find out together. My husband and I were just talking about it and he said it’s gonna be awkward to have everyone gather around us almost cult like to see the gender. Since he’s said that, I’ve been really rethinking doing this. Now I’m starting to think maybe just him and I should go and have them put the gender in an envelope. I don’t really want a reveal party that’s why I decided to just have everyone come see since my family is so big. I’d also feel bad just calling everyone and telling them the gender after we planned for everyone to be there. I’m kinda stuck. Any suggestions?