Venting

I am a guide parent (non religious term for god parent) to a beautiful 14 month old girl.

I am currently pregnant with my first baby.

I have my GD most days/nights as her mom is struggling with some issues.

My GD still gets up to have a bottle 3-4 times a night!

It’s driving me crazy! Her mom takes her 1-3 nights a week and she is the type to throw a (formula) bottle in her mouth as soon as she starts to stir in the middle of the night, reversing the weaning I do. Please help we need to sleep thru night!

Getting the mom to stick to healthy parenting seems impossible! Ive been trying since the day I found out she was pregnant to help her get her life straight. We aren’t even friends I’m solely in her life for my GD sake. Thanks for reading I really needed to vent and would love to hear tips or other stories