So back in November I became single after 11 years in a relationship. We have shared the same bed and home but no sex. So last month I decided to start seeing other people. I met one guy in the store. And the trash truck driver. I have to say I gave in and moved really fast my first mistake. The guy I met in the grocery store gave me oral sex. It was amazing. A week later the trash truck guy gave me oral sex it was to infinity and beyond! Then I had sex and he gave me oral sex the second time we used a condom and it broke. I’m allergic to latex it was my own fault I should have came prepared. Well I had a little discomfort from Wednesday till Monday and Monday I had my PAP and I told my Dr I had an accident with a condom he immediately took a sample and headed to the lab. Ladies I had trichomoniasis! I almost died never in all my 33 years have I ever gotten an STI OR STD. So I asked him does he sleep with other women and he says I did after he got drunk at his friends wedding. I really like him but he just gave me a STI. I like him based on what he does for me sexually honestly. I think I should keep shopping but I also think I should stay put.