okay, so this off and on guy and i have been seeing each other, but i clarified that we’re going slow and staying friends. yet, he kept kissing me when we hung out when i didn’t instigate it, and grabbing my ass when we were watching a movie in bed. i wasnt uncomfortable, but i clarified i wanted to take it slow so I reiterated that.

recently, a guy from study group has been flirty texting me and i haven’t been stopping him. i flirted a little too, but he showed up at my job without me asking and i felt really uncomfortable so i told him im sorry if i led him on but i didn’t want to be with him. I also felt guilty, because I know the first guy likes me a lot, but I don’t like him as much.

should I feel bad? also, over the summer when i was crying and begging him to be with me, he was going on dates on tinder and ignoring me, and he and I aren’t dating but I’m the one who made that decision, so should I feel bad??