Friend is mad that I’m not jealous of her bf

Okay y’all, I’m pretty damn sure I’m not in the wrong here. But my friend is pretty sure i am. So I’m gonna let you all decide, though once I explain, I think you’ll understand my side.

Quick background: I’m engaged and we have a 1 year old together. We’ve been together almost 4 years & couldn’t be happier. Of course we have our issues but it’s nothing we can’t move passed.

So, my friend recently started dating this guy who’s a student at out uni, and used to be in the military and now they pay for his schooling. As you can imagine, he’s pretty built, he’s also a wrestler at our uni. She also found out he’s done some modeling, and sent be a picture of him. He had no clothes on, and only a sheet over his penis. I told her I didn’t feel comfortable with that. She then asked “why? Are you jealous of me and him or something?” And I said “no but seeing your boyfriend nearly naked isn’t appealing to me. Plus I’m beyond happy in my relationship so jealousy isn’t an issue” and she got angry and said “as my friend, you should recognize when my boyfriend is more attractive than yours” and I said “you can think that. I don’t agree” and we haven’t spoken since. I’m not even mad about it lol I think she’s a little ridiculous but she was very angry with me. 😂

So, who’s in the wrong here?

TIA 💓

Update: thanks guys!! I should clarify that I used the term “friend” very loosely. We have a class together and often get together to read the book and write papers. We’ve never hung out outside of class purposes. This is the first conversation we’ve had that’s not class related. It was strange to say the least lol