My husband and I are having a disagreement about finding out the gender of our baby. I don’t want to find out and he does. I really really want it to be a surprise. How do I get him on my side? What are some compromises?

He suggests he finds out and keeps it’s a secret and we tell everyone that we aren’t finding out and just he will know. But he is not the best at keeping secrets...I don’t trust that he won’t slip up. And I would be devastated if someone else besides my husband knew the sex of my baby before me. Help!