Question

How will you ladies feel if the father of your child who literally does nothing for your child and never makes time to be in there life ask can they spend Christmas with him & his family? Long story short my 2 year old daughters father lives in Texas his family lives in Louisiana, her dad makes every excuse as to why he can’t come see her. He goes 7-8 months at a time without seeing her, & when he does I always have to travel to him in order for him to spend time with her. He pays $129 every 2 weeks in child support and sends $20 every now and then if I ask for it. Other than that he’s not helping at all. He keeps saying he wants her to go out to Louisiana with him for Christmas but I feel like it’s so unfair for him to go the entire year without being here then gets to wake up to my smiling child on Christmas Day like he’s been there since day one. What would you say if you were me? I don’t have a problem with him coming here to spend it with her it’s just the fact him and his parents never try to visit but expect to get her on major holidays..