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Okay so this guy is seeing me and another girl. But he is only interested in her sexually, but interested in me sexual and wants to date me. I want all of attention not half. So is wrong if I ask him to be more exclusive? He has only known me a about a week and the other girl I don't know. Is this wrong to do? (Not an ultimatum)

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I would never persue a guy who is fucking someone else.

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It’s only been a week.... I can understand wanting the attention for yourself, but you aren’t really in a relationship yet. I guess you have to decide what’s worse; dating someone who is sleeping with another girl, or find a new guy who isn’t.

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So you enjoy being an option? Also it's been a week of barely knowing you. He shouldn't have to give up the other girl since hde BARELY knows you

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If you've already talked about sex and another girl, it probably won't scare him as much when talking about being exclusive. Although, if I met a guy and even if I really liked him and he told me to get rid of any guys I was seeing after just a week, I would be freaking out a bit... but depending on how much I really liked him and how much I really liked the other guy, would depend on my reaction. Best of luck and keep me posted!!😀🙋‍♀️

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It’s wrong and comes off as needy, and that’s unattractive and a red flag to most guys. You’ve barely known him a week and you’re already wanting him to cut off other girls without actually being his girlfriend and knowing the guy. Right now, you’re just an option, and trying to make the decision for him and wanting to take away his other option is not right. That’s something he has to decide for himself UNLESS you are removing yourself from the whole equation. If he told you about everything, that’s because he’s being open and wants you to know the situation because he’s probably going to want to be like that for a while. You can communicate what you want, but it’s ultimately his decision and I think you’ll probably make him lose interest in you.

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UPDATE: So he ended with the other girl, because she was super clingy and needy (also he never had sex with her, it was just interest, this is to clarify. But has with me.) I didn't tell him anything about this being exclusive or liking and I don't plan on telling him anything for awhile at least, because of your guys help, so thank you for your help.

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I mean some relationships move fast... but one week of barely just knowing each other seems a little too quick to ask for something serious. Why would he even tell you he’s dating/sleeping with other people though?? That was kind of a dick move on his part.. 
Ask to be more exclusive if you want but based on everything you’ve said it doesn’t seem like he wants to be serious & just wants options of girls to skew with... proceed with caution.

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Its only been a week. It’s too soon to think he really wants to start a relationship or really be with you. Who knows maybe he was also into the other girl the same way and the crush faded and he just wants her sexually now. There’s a chance he could just want you sexually after about a few weeks too because you barely know each other. You should wait to see how things go and if he is really serious about you he will stop messing with her on his own

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He kinda sounds like a jerk...I’d move on personally

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