How do you all stay positive while trying to conceive?

This is my first round using progesterone and femara and still not pregnant I feel absolutely helpless. Every month is a let down .... I am mostly positive about everything in life and always try to think “ things could always be worse” because that is true . But this infertility shit is a horrible feeling and I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy..... props to all you ladies going throw infertility and staying strong ! Because I feel like I’m falling apart today. Not trying to get sympathy or give a pity party just venting my feelings having a rough day , Thanks in advance.