I'll make this as short as possible. I'm 28. My current boyfriend is 32. I have a 40 year old guy friend. I've outgrown my boyfriend and he is abusive to myself and my animals. I told him from the beginning that once I got my own house, that I will be rescuing what ever animal that needs me. I also wanted 2 kids and be married before I was 30. It's been 6 years. He doesn't talk about OUR future and never popped the question. 3 years ago I meet my 40 year old friend (37) at the time. He is married but was having problems because him and his wife cheated on each other. They decided to try and work it out. Come to find out recently that he is tried of trying because it's been one sided. He is working on saving up to get him a place so he can divorce her. We was talking about when we meet and figured out we had feelings for each other the whole time. He has everything I want in a man. We both don't want to jump into something right. Is he worth the wait?