I’m posting this anonymously because I don’t want judgement. After having your baby do you feel as your relationship sometimes got harder and easier at times. I feel like my husband in I go through phases of it being easy and then hard. My husband works a lot and then deals with our baby in the mornings well I work. I know he’s exhausted. He works night shift and I take care of the baby at night. But sometimes we have different views on things for the baby. It’s hard to coparent or agree on things because we’re never home together but on the weekends and by then we’re already set in our ways about what we been doing with our baby. Just times I feel like my relationship is harder and I have to try so much harder at it then I ever did