went to the doctors today because I had some weird feeling that something was wrong with my baby. My gynecologist did a pelvic exam and everything looked good. Did an ultrasound right in his office and the look on his face killed me.... I asked if everything was okay... he just sat there looking. I started crying.... he said he was so sorry but there was no fetal pole?? Whatever that means. He then tried to listen to heart beat... there was none. We discussed my options... he gave me a shot so that all of the tissue can come out of me and then I’m starting birth control again... I can’t go through this heartbreak anymore....