Due date blues

So my entire family has told me since very early on in the pregnancy I wouldn't make it till my due date. Some telling me that I would go as early as Sept. Everyone had a day picked on which Derek would join us. All those dates have now come and gone everyone's theory put to rest.... and well its officially Derek's due date. Trying to walk him out have been for the last week or so. Only dilated to 3cm. No contractions or anything. 😤 don't know what else to do but wait for our stubborn child.