If it were really up to me, I’d be getting married with about a guest list of 30-45 people. However, that isn’t the case and with with immediate family and friends only, we have 80. There are some members of our family that aren’t currently in relationships, and we’re trying to keep our costs low. How do I decide who gets a plus one and who doesn’t? I’ve heard about lengths of relationships, and some other rules, but I want to know what other people did.

*our wedding is in New Mexico and most of our family lives in Texas*