If you are considering dating a man with a child/children DON'T....THE END THANK ME LATER Whew chile wait til you deal with BABABYMAMA DRAMA....again thank me later...Ohhh and I did it for EIGHT YEARS...Let me explain all the issues you might face and this is 95% of the time...

Babymama drama

Kids bad behaviour

Kids don't like you

Hubby don't allow you to disclipine in any way

Babymama controls your relationship

Hubby still sleeping with BM behind your back

Kids goes back and tells BM EVERYTHING that happens in your household EVERY arguement, etc.

You're expected to put up with the shitsss and still treat the kid like your own.....Ohhh but you can't disclipine them like you would your own....The end