Sex??

Question

When will I want to have sex again!? Our baby is 3 months old & I just have zero desire to do it. My poor hubby 🙈 I suck it up and do it because I want to keep him happy but I never initiate it like I used to. 😫

Answer

I am having the opposite problem. I’ve never had a high sex drive, I never initiated it. But now since having my LO it has been crazy high. I want it all the time, which my husband doesn’t mind. I would assume that once your hormones balance back out you would be more willing. Hopefully it will get better for you soon!

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I’m in the same boat! My little is 12 weeks, I do it, but I could go without it. I wish my sex drive would come back! But my doctor said it could last as long as you’re breastfeeding 😳 so, here’s to a year of no sex drive 🍻 yay... 😏

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My little one is almost three months and I also have no desire. Sometimes I think about it but I’m just so tired lol it’s so sad but it is what it is. We have had sex a couple times but he is the one that initiates it and a lot of times he says he thinks about waking me up but he doesn’t want to make me mad because he doesn’t know how often the baby woke up.

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Breastfeeding hormones can really tank your sex drive. Remember everyone is different and to be patient with yourself and don't feel pressured to do it if you don't want to. Use this as an opportunity to get hubby to be more romantic than usual to help get you in the mood.

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I've been kind of forcing myself into the mood for my husband. I've been faking it till I make it. It has helped! Sex is still mildly painful at first but after that it feels great. My husband is also a very, uh, giving partner so that helps

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