Trying to get pregnant.

We’re trying to get pregnant and I’m logging everything... there’s so much information out there on how to predict your ovulation day and when to have sex... and we’re trying for a girl... Can’t use lube, I’m not suppose to orgasm, no sex 2-4 days before ovulation, etc...

We will be happy with either boy or girl. So please don’t judge... I have a 3 your old son and love him to pieces! Just want to see if the whole timing thing works! Any one have any advice on this?