My boyfriend cheated on me in Europe. He confused after a month it happened. He told me “I kissed another girl while in London at the hostel.” Should I break up with him? He seemed torn up about what he did.

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I mean this is up to you, we can't tell you. Personally, I'd leave. Cheating is a deal breaker, we both know that. I know myself and I know I wouldn't be able to move past my SO being unfaithful.

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I personally find cheating unforgivable so I would leave. But some people can let it go. Only you can decide that. Best of luck.

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Only you can decide that one. Are you the kind of person who can overlook the fact that your boyfriend cheated on you in another country and continent? Or are you the kind of person who wants to move on and forget it all together? Sometimes you can't get past certain things depending on what type of person you are. There's a dumb rule that some people live by where it "isn't cheating if it's out of country" and it's b.s.
In most cases a lot of people will not stick around for that. Regardless of whether he seems torn up about it or not, it happened. The one respect I can give him is that he came forward about it, but still took a whole month to do so. So once again, only you can answer what you think is right decision for this relationship.

My boyfriend cheated on me in Europe. He confused after a month it happened. He told me “I kissed another girl while in London at the hostel.” Should I break up with him? He seemed torn up about what he did.

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