My partner has been suffering with depression for the last year, Ive also suffered for years but able to live a normal-ish life. This is all new for him, and he lost his sex drive. I understand how hard depression is, there’s so much going on. The last few months he’s seemed so much better, but we only seem to have sex when he’s hungover. It makes him feel better. I feel like a bloody paracetamol. I can count on one hand how many times we’ve had sex this year. If I bring up intimacy he gets defensive and dismissive. How do I go about talking or acting on this? I’m not feeling attractive or wanted 😭