I teased my S.O. while baby talking with our daughter. I called her (my S.O.) a sour puss because she always looks for the worst in people and is very pessimistic.

She (my S.O.) respond by saying I'm fucked up and so is my family. I was not happy about this in the slightest

I asked for an apology and her response was that she had no reason to apologize because she thinks it's the truth

Eventually she did apologize; "if it means that much to you I'll apologize".

Today she brought up my family being fucked up again

I'm supposed to forgive and forget but I can't help but feel completely disrespected and attacked