The end of the honeymoon phase

Erika

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 6 months now. I feel like in the beginning we were both super happy and wanted to spend every minute together now. Lately, over the last month we’ve been arguing often. It’s usually my fault due to trust issues i had from a previous relationship, but we’ve worked through it and every time he gives me the reassurance I need. Another constant thing we argue about is him sleeping when I come over.. I realize NOW how childish I was being. He wakes up early for work, about 5:30am and I would stay over late, about 12. And if I come over the next day I would get upset that he wants to sleep. (We have opposite schedules so I’m never tired when he is) I know now how stupid this was but I feel I’ve already annoyed him too much that he’s starting to lose feelings. I brought this up when I THOUGHT we were going to have sex but he came while I was giving head and I got so upset! Lol. I feel like we don’t have as much sex as we used to or I’m usually the one that has to initiate it.. he also takes so long to text back but I know when he’s at home he’s just playing video games or sleeping. I do trust him. I just feel like certain things aren’t the same, he says he still loves me, it’s just personally he’s stressed bc of money. He had to miss work bc we were both in a car accident and then we both got sick. I know, a whole lot of bad stuff. I don’t know if these are signs or just happen to be going through a tough time. I want to work through it but I’m scared he doesn’t feel the same. Any thoughts? Honestly just need to rant and we’ve already talked about it so I don’t wanna stress him out more if I’m just overthinking things.