Me and my fiancé are trying to get pregnant and I feel like it’s harder than it should be?

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Me and my fiancé have tried for a baby four times now (like he came in me four times) this has been throughout the span of about 2 months. I haven’t gotten pregnant (I just started my period) is this normal or are we having a harder time than normal? I feel like most women talk about getting pregnant like it was the easiest thing.

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It takes most couples up to a year. Just have sex like you normally would and don't worry about it.

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I would have more sex! 4 times in 2 months isn’t much especially if you weren’t tracking ovulation.

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Okay, first let’s define what a fertility specialist considers “trying”: at least every other day during your fertile window.
So, you’ve only done it four times in two months. That’s nowhere near enough.
The average couple that is actually trying (by a doctor’s definition) takes three to six months to get pregnant. Of course, that’s an average, so some take more and some take less.

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Some women take 2 years to get pregnant. Also keep in mind that youre not completely fertile your entire cycle and its hard to know when you are and arent. 🤷🏼‍♂️
If youre worried about it, start tracking your cycle, includong ovulation.

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4 times is nothing, you gotta be super lucky to get pregnant that fast. It took us exactly 2 years.

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Everyone is different. Took my brother and my sil 6 months for their first and one month for their second... took me one month for both of my pregnancy.

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Just do every other day til your next period lol you’ll never miss then

Me and my fiancé are trying to get pregnant and I feel like it’s harder than it should be?

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