Too young?

Question

I'm 15. Am I to young to know Alot about BDSM and kink? Is it bad that I want a dominant?

Accepted Answer

You’re not too young to understand your desires but you are too young to act on them. Stick to masturbation and fantasy

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Technically you are too young to be participating. Kink is 18+. You really should wait to get involved with kink or online blogs about kink until you are 18. There are a lot of people in the world who are adults that can take advantage of minors who follow the interests. I understand its frustrating to have someone tell you not to do something, but it really is for your safety. As much as this community is great, there always can be someone sitting behind a screen with really bad intentions. Be very careful, and please take my suggestion seriously. You can still role play and experiment on your own, but I would suggest staying away from kink online and kink relationships until you're over 18. I was taken advantage of as a minor, and I can tell you right now that I shouldn't of been participating in kink. I shouldn't of been looking for those things until I was 18.

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Not necessarily, but don’t engage physically until you’re mature. Period. What you should do is examine your interests, your ideas about relationships, and read and read and read! And I’m not talking fiction here, but something to help you get a real idea of what you might be getting into. It’s very intense, possibly dangerous, and can be addictive - which is not to say it’s bad (I mean, I’m here) but that it needs to be safe, sane and consensual, and that requires a lot of work.

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Im 17 (as of last week) and my dom is 18. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I just discovered it last year and Im still learning about it. Im really into being a rope bunny so I gotta do some research and talk to my daddy dom about it :>

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No, itsgreat you’re finding out what you’re into and what makes you tick. I’d say if you do it on someone around your age just not over 17. Then have a blast, but be safe and use preventive measures.

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As long as you consent and your partner(s) consent. Consent is the basis to ANY playtime. Have fun, be safe, and give consent when you feel comfortable to consent as well as get consent!

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I started BDSM at 15 with my bf who was 18. We had been in a relationship for a year, and we are still together to this day, now that we are both adults. That is NOT to say you should go find a dom, I was lucky enough to be in a position were it was safe and convenient AND I didn't live with an adult or parent. I also spent a year doing research and I am still actively researching now. PLEASE, do as much research as possible. Evie Lupine has the best BDSM YouTube content, I also suggest MilkWebs, Britany Simom, and WattstheSafeWord. If your are able to buy books on your own, I personally thoroughly enjoyed ”Conquer Me” by Kacie Cunningham. 
No matter one please NEVER 1) play with someone you can not legally consent to being with and 2) lie about your age to a partner.

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Not at all! If you ever have any questions, come to me! I am 15 as well and have been educated in BDSM and Kinks along with self care!

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