Tips on dilating! I’m desperate 😩

Pllleeassee moms, share your tips on how to dilate!!

Baby is in position, I am 100% effaced, lost my mucus plug but I am not dilating despite having contractions! Let me rephrase, the very beginning of my cervix is dilating but I’m closed if my dr tried to stick his finger IN my cervix (make sense?).

I’ve walked a bit, had sex (highly uncomfortable at this point), spicy food, everything I can think of!!

I am desperate!! I do not want to be induced, my labor with my first was 8 hours start to finish at 38 weeks, why is my body torturing me this time lol.

Please sprinkle your wisdom upon me, I want my daughter here 😩😂