I need a solution to my dilemma!

So my husband and I live in my mother’s house. She moved out of the province and asked us if we could move in to help out my brother with the bills and mortgage until we are ready to move where she is. We have to move eventually to the same province because I need to finish my masters degree but we are in no rush! I want a baby first and want work to save and pay off some of my student loans.

Anyway, my husband absolutely hates it. He says we have no privacy and he doesn’t like living by other people’s rules, he’s not the man of the house, we have to keep our food separate, be quiet when my brother is sleeping. The list goes on, and I agree but the mortgage is so cheap! We pay less than $600 a month, which helps us save as well. My mom also told us that when she sell the house she will give us some money since the house will be paid off completely.

My problem is I want to stay because it’s cheap and convenient but I so badly want my own space and it’s annoying sharing one bathroom with my brother or in living in my moms house with all her stuff.

We want our own things and not have to worry about getting into “trouble” because I’m waking someone up in the morning when I want to clean. (My brother works night shifts) and when my mom comes to visit she totally invades our privacy and comes into our room because most of her stuff is still in the house.... to top it off there’s no room for a babies room!

So my dilemma is should we just buy a house now since we have a down payment and leave my brother to fend for himself and/or have my mom sell her house early OR tough it out keep saving, make a babies section in our room since we have the basement and wait till we move out of the province in a year or two and buy a house then?! Help!