Feeling abandoned

Ali

First let me start with I was abandoned as an infant and constantly reminded of it growing up.

That being said, I’m feeling very abandoned by my husband recently since my most recent miscarriage in April. He’s always on his phone, doesn’t pay me hardly any attention. Only has sex with me on ovulation week and he comes home from work and goes straight to bed. We both work 40 hours. I’m just as tired as he is but I still come home and want sex, do the house work etc.. how am I supposed to give him my best if he doesn’t even want it?