& he doesnt want to go to the pumpkin patch because hes "lazy" then told me to call my mom to watch the kids so we can go to the movies. Like okay? My mom isnt a drop in and out whenever we want & he knows she has recently taken care of them a few days ago and was upset because we didnt pick them up when we were suppose to (that was another story) she was sick that day too and still is so i told him maybe we shouldnt ask her. I was hoping he would have planned something nice or have gotten me flowers but nothing. Then he asks if he can go smoke with his friends because he wasnt able to yesterday or the other day. Wtf. Am i wrong to be upset? I almost didnt believe him wen he asked me and i told him no then he gave me an attitude and i told him to just leave then. Then he said i killed the mood with my attitude and he wasn't going if i was going to be upset and he walked away. I wish i had a car so i could of done something with my 8 month old n 2 year old n just leave but i guess my birthdays dont matter anymore.