So I have 2 children from a previous marriage and my husband has 1. Together we have a set of 2 yr. Old twin boys.

We are both having anxiety about sharing our news with family and friends because we don't want ANY negativity... "are you crazy?!" "What are you gonna do?!" We are both so happy to be welcoming this new life into our great big bunch and are really hoping for a girl!

We've decided not to share anything until after 13 weeks because I had a miscarriage last year...

I guess what I'm getting at is do you ladies have any advice on dealing with nay sayers? We want to just say a big screw you to people who aren't happy for us... but our family has been through so much and we haven't ever really had people be super happy for any of our babies and it will break my heart if all I get is negativity... JUST ONCE I'd like my family and his to be elated and happy for us, but I just don't feel like that's gonna happen... it makes me sad.