I’m 34 years old and I want to have children in the next two years. I stopped taking birth control because I was single for a few years. Now that I’m involved me and my partner have unprotected sex. We use the pull out method and condoms occasionally. I also use the app to track ovulation. We both agree we don’t want a baby now but he’s suggesting birth control and I refuse. So he asked how I felt about abortion and I explained I had done it in the past but would never do it again. Am I being selfish, should I use birth control? I wouldn’t want him to be resentful if I were to become pregnant and keep the baby. If anyone can give me any helpful advice or insight please do!