Okay, I need to get this of my chest. My husband thinks I’m overreacting - I think I’m in the right.

A very dear friend of mine, she holds the key to my house in case we forget where we leave ours (happens a lot).

Lately there has been a lot of stealing and break ins in the area so I’m slightly nervous. And last night I heard someone entering my house. So there was me sitting uo straight in the bed in total panic. My husband was fast a sleep (he has really bad insomnia so when he sleeps, he sleeps) and I couldn’t wake him up.

After some noise and a closing door I went down and saw some traces it was my friend who popped in. I spoke to her today and she said that it was her.

For a reason that pissed me off big time. She entered my house to grab the keys to our studio in the backyard so she and another mate of ours could shag.

I literally said two weeks ago I don’t want that because his girlfriend is 7 months pregnant. I do not want to be the one that is organising this. They both have a house as well ‘but couldnt find the keys’...

I am just so angry about this! It’s the safety of my own house. You can’t just walk in there? I mean what the fuck!

My husband thought it was rather funny and says I shouldn’t break a friendship because of this, but I can’t help but feel this is my safety zone - you can’t just do that. Can you?