Alright I need opinions. My husband and I are raising our son. He’s got two sets of grandparents my hubbys set a and mine set b. Set a doesn’t see our son because they’re busy and have two small children of their own. Set b sees him all the time. We live close by so it’s easier for them, & last night we were visiting set b and they started speaking Spanish to him, he hears it but it’s not spoken in our house often. My husband asked for English to be spoken until he learns to talk and then Spanish can be taught to him. Things escalated we went home. Set b starts texting that if we don’t let them do what they want then they won’t see him anymore. Now today all of my family is shaming my husband who has worked hard for my family and done any and everything they’ve asked. They’re calling him names and talking to me like I’m stupid and don’t know how to think for myself & telling us that we are not welcome on their property. I’ve decided that we are going to take some time to keep to ourselves and my husband says he will keep away since they hate him so that our son can still have grandparents in his life. Is it wrong for me to be considering moving away? I’ve never wanted to live this close to my parents but my husband insisted it was best.. on another note, for those who will say that we over reacted or something to that measure. While being left alone with set b, they have let him be attacked by their dog, eat rat poison, & have given him spicy foods. He’s not even one yet. We asked not to give spicy food since he’s little and their response was what they give him and we don’t know won’t hurt us. Their house their rules & since they’re grandparents they’re going to do what they want whether we like it or not..

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