I love my older cousin (she’s 22 I’m 20) cousin but she seriously makes everything about her.. all the time.. multiple occasions in the past

My 17th birthday she didn’t want to do what i wanted to do so we did what she wanted to do

She comes home every year(she moved to Hawaii 4 years ago) for Christmas and her birthday.. she’s vegan (no one else in our family is) so we had to make vegan food everytime like I’m sorry but I’m not going to make special food for you no one makes special food for me i just have to pick and choose what i can eat because I’m diabetic

I was really excited about finding out if I’m having a boy or girl on Wednesday and she just had her baby and the only thing she tells me is I’m finding out when her daughter is 6 weeks old.. like I’m sorry i really don’t care 🤷🏼‍♀️

Then she’s coming home for Christmas I’ll be pregnant like 2 months away from giving birth and one of the more stressful times (I’m getting induced early and my sugars will skyrocket because I’m diabetic and that’s what it does at the end of pregnancy and i just know she’s gonna come home and make it all about her and her baby and her boyfriend and I’m just going to get irritated.. and she’ll try to push me to be vegan

She announced she was having a girl on my wedding day so people were waiting for my wedding to start and talking about they couldn’t wait for the baby announcement..

it’s not that i don’t want her to talk about herself i love hearing about my niece (we grew up like sisters so we will be aunties to each other’s kids) but when someone asks me about my pregnancy or my baby or i post something on Facebook don’t talk about yours just be happy for me.. i text her all the time asking for pictures and seeing how baby is doing and everything but when i post something about me why couldn’t have been “I’m so excited” or even a “yay” no it was “you’re finding out when kaila turns 6 weeks” like okay🙄🙄🙄 i don’t know if she means too or she just doesn’t think but it’s fucking annoying