Am I spending too much on him?

I'm currently a student and my bf is between jobs and has been studying short courses for the past 6 months. Last Xmas I got him a whole outfit and an excersise machine (£200) For his bday I booked us a hotel (£160) and get us dinner. Planned a whole day out but he didn't want to do it and we ended up arguing because he just spent the day on his phone not really talking to me instead.

For my bday we just had a night out with friends and then we went on holiday to France with my family. (£350) and Xmas I got a hair drier and pajamas. throughout the year we have bought eachother things here and there but recently he has been asking for more and more. While not getting me anything. For example we were going to buy eachother shoes. I got him a pair for 120 but returned them because they weren't the ones he wanted and never mentioned getting me the shoes he said he would. I know he isn't working atm but neither am I. He still makes money. My money is all savings and rent/food money. And I am trying not to dig too deep into my savings just to please him.

For this Xmas I booked us both a holiday to Amsterdam. Which is about 600 each. But he is now asking me to replace his laptop because I broke it over 9 months ago, he didn't want it replaced at the time or anytime I mentioned it earlier.

I'm not trying to say he needs to get me everything I get him but I do feel like recently he hasn't been paying his share. Or making any moves to gift me as I do him.

Do you think I'm spending too much? Do you think he just isn't as interested in me as he use to be? Am I just over thinking this?