I recently been having anxiety attacks and my depression has taken over my life for a couple months now . I been in this wonderful and healthy relationship for almost 3 months . Before me and him decided to be together we got to know each other as well. He knew the baggage I carried with me. Still wanted to be with me, he told me he would be with me till end but will not stop me if I wanted to leave cause he respects me and my decision. Recently I came to realize I’m not happy with who I am , my life and just always negative . It’s gotten to point it got my relationship and we got into a real huge fight about how he stopped having time for me but also my negativity and insecurities would creep in and make me think I just wasn’t good enough that’s why he wasn’t trying as hard any more . So I told him I need time to think. What I have so far have is to let him go and work on who I want to be and make myself happy before I try to make someone else happy . Because I believe when you’re in love you want to take care of them , love them unconditionally, just cater to their needs without hesitation. It seems I can’t right now. I don’t know if I will be doing the mistake of leaving him, when he could help me ? Ps I’m only 21 and he’s 24. And this is us !