So my boyfriend and I have little disagreements all the time. So his excuse for saying I’m dramatic and taking it “too far” is that the arguments happen all the time.

Whenever I try to explain to him how I feel he says, “OKAY I said sorry 40 times” with an attitude. Which only hurts my feelings more.

I always make an effort to drive 30 minutes to his place every time we hangout and he picks me up maybe three out of the ten times we hangout. I had 18 miles until empty and his place is 18 miles away, he told me to come over that I would have enough gas. I packed myself and my three year old up in my car and decided to turn around due to not wanting to run out of gas on the way.

He said, “if you ran out of gas it would’ve been fine I would come save you” I had a slight panic attack and got really stressed out not even five minutes away from my house and after getting home I told him that he could’ve just came and got us. He said he never thought about it. To which I told him if he actually wanted to hangout that bad he would make more of an effort to COME TO ME sometimes also.

We got off the phone and we haven’t talked since (about an hour)

I just feel like he doesn’t care about how feel and that he dismisses my feelings because “we argue a lot” which we don’t.. we normally communicate well

He then always says that I don’t trust him and that I take it too far all the time. (I don’t, I just like to say how I feel)

Idk am I too available for him? I basically jump when he says jump and he’s normally the really busy one..

I’m still upset because this is the second time I’ve gotten ready and wasted time getting ready just to not hangout. Which he seems fine about....