I'm tired of the fact that my husbands parents always get to throw shade and smart remarks at me but when i do he starts to tell me things infront of them. It gets me so angry because he always takes their side

I'm not the type of person to play around and i dont do heavy jokes, thats how his family is. They also always like to throw shade about how i dress my kid, where i take him. If i put shoes or not on him

We don't have the money to be dressing him up fancy like others

Today i said i left the walker at my moms and my FIL was like "oh wow how nice" as in saying that why i left it there so i said its because my mom bought it.

I am never disrespectful but i'm getting tired of their crap and i can't even defend myself without someone getting mad. Why doesn't he get mad when they say things that bug me or why doesn't he defend me