Im lost

So for the last week or so me and my fiance have been going at it I ask him to not send friend request to women bit he doesn't listen I asked him to not search for his x who made my life hell the first year of our relationship but guess what I didn't get that much respect either this is what he does

I feel I'm not over reacting because he doesn't like when I wear weave wigs make up ect and oh if I like an x post or was friends with one hell would freeze over am I being to hard my feelings are mostly hurt like really hurt this is me

No make up or weave

This is me with it all