I know, I know.. Dumb question, just take a test right? Well I took 3 and I’m still confused.

I guess I’ll start with some info. I have had two sexual partners in my life. They were both people I was/am now long term with so we haven’t been the most careful.

The first guy I was with was back when I was young and dumb. I didn’t think about the consequences but after 2 years of him finishing in me with no condom, there were no consequences. I never got pregnant. So.. I figured maybe I can’t? The guy I’m with now, we waited to stop using condoms but lo and behold, they eventually came off. (well after we were both tested and clean) We don’t use protection, I am not on the pill. I’m 23 now so a baby wouldn’t be the worst thing, but I’d like to be prepared.

My period should have started on Oct 7, 2018. It is now Oct 26, 2018, yet no period. I have had cramping, bloating and I want to eat all the time.

First test, negative. Second, negative. Third, positive. All taken the same day. Can I even rely on these or should I go to the doctor? I just don’t want to take off work if it’s not needed, but of course I will if it’s necessary. This would be my first “pregnancy scare”/ pregnancy so I don’t know much. Any advice would be so wonderful! Thank you!